The following is a quote from Mark Dever’s message on Evangelism and the Church for the 2009 Desiring God Conference for Pastors:
We want to lead our congregations to evangelize congregationally. What I’m saying is, the corporate witness of our churches, will make our evangelism either easier or harder — depending on whether that witness is a help, or a hindrance. If your church, is all about making sure everybody who was ever a member is still a member, keeping this group together at all costs, then you are forfeiting your witness to the Gospel in the community. If your church is all about glorifying Christ, seeing his Spirit work and mold and break and convict and edify and change us, as individuals and as a community, friends, then Satan’s knees are shaking! That’s exactly what God built the church to do.
This particular comment struck me hard. It seems that many of our churches fall prey to this temptation to keep peace at any and all costs. We handle sin with kid gloves and maintain facades as we interact with others from the church. Often, this may lead to double lives. We put on our happy face and act real holy at church, but our lives away from church reflect all the values of the world and are barren and dry spiritually.
While I have seen this condition in churches before, I am not sure I had thought about it as a forfeit of our Gospel witness. However, it makes perfect sense. Unity at all costs will inevitably lead to hypocrisy and hypocrisy is the bane of evangelism. Our unbelieving friends and family see through the happy-face charades that we play, and it sickens them — as it should sicken us! When we pretend to be holy on Sunday, but our lives are not transparent, authentic, and transformed daily, we fail to show the power of the Gospel and make evangelism difficult, if not impossible.
On the other hand, if we are willing to live humbly, confessing our own sin, earnestly pursuing the glory of Jesus Christ in the power of the Holy Spirit, then our lives will be a fragrant aroma to those whom God is calling to salvation. While self-righteous, religious pride is toxic to evangelism, authentic and honest relationships that are causing us to sharpen one another and grow in our conformity to Jesus will be strangely attractive to unbelievers. As a result, our attempts to proclaim the Gospel will have a much more powerful effect.
However, authentic and honest relationships will ultimately lead to a certain amount of conflict. As a result, people who LIKE their religious pride and sense of superiority will not react well to even the most loving confrontation over their sin. As a result, people who are not serious about having their own sin dealt with will often be driven away — much like the rich young ruler. When Jesus forced him to choose between becoming a disciple and his material possessions, we found out that he really worshipped his stuff, not Jesus.
In response, ask yourself the following questions:
Do you really know and believe the Gospel?
Is the Gospel something you know in your head, but do not rejoice over in your heart?
Does your church value the glory of Christ and his cross more than it values peace among the membership?
I would challenge you to think this through prayerfully, asking the Spirit to reveal His truth to you, and to discern whether your practice is consistent with your theology. If there is a gap in your practice, either individually or corporately, repent and turn to Jesus. Cultivate an environment where the glory of Christ is more important than your own comfort, and you may find that your church will begin to be competitive for lost souls, instead of forfeiting them to the enemy.